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March 2018 Lesson Three
Have you struggled with the challenges of life only to be left tired and hopeless?
Do you cringe at the suggestion that you can change your life?
Dr. Carol S. Dweck was amazed at some four years old that she observed very early in her career
Clearly, there were at least two ways of dealing with life going on with these children. What was it? Over the years of her research, she has come to identify what she observed as expressions of Mindset. Additionally, she contends that mindset plays a significant role in our lives, especially as it relates to what helps us succeed.
The hallmark of a fixed mindset is that when there is even a hint of “failure,” they blame, make excuses, discount or attack any suggestions to improve. They are angered and embarrassed to be seen as unable to do a task. They have to live up to an internal sense that they already know everything, they are innately superior. Fixed mindset despises effort, “You ought to have success effortlessly. Otherwise, you are and will always be less than a success.” This attitude may come from feeling deeply inadequate or from feelings of being untouchable and superior. This sense of self releases one from the task of trying to prove or improve her/himself. It also leaves no room for building skills to solve problems.
Growth mindset is excited to create the actions to learn more, especially as it relates to what they love. They expect works needed to reach mastery. The growth mindset allows people to love what they're doing or to do what they love, just because.
They understand that going into areas they have never been, making mistakes to learn is the basis of life. Growth mindset individuals, free of the task to continually prove their brilliance, are free to go for the things they deeply value and love. They know that any one can succeed if they are willing to put in the time to learn and apply
A person with a growth mindset is excited to create the actions to expand their world and experience more. They expect to work to reach mastery.
IQ tests, as we think of them today, are part of the problem. We have come to consider an IQ test as the determining factor to a person’s intellectual ability, now and forever. Alfred Binet, a French psychologist, created the IQ in 1905. It was to test the educational system. The test was developed to show how well a systems methods was do in teaching reaching and inspiring the students. Binet knew that the mind was forever learning given the right environment. The IQ was to test the system, not the person.
Praise for things a child has no control over such as eye color, beauty, even innate gifts can also leads to a fixed mindset. "You are so pretty." "You are so smart." "You play the piano so beautifully."
These can be traps.
When you are praising another, look for the effort that individual has brought to the task. Praise the effort, something the child/adult did by choice. "I saw how much commitment it took for you to learn that piano piece so well." "I love the way you bring great colors together with your clothes." "I know you didn't let discouragement stop you kept falling at ice skating rink. Look at how well you skate now!"
Do fear and anger snap at your mind?
Are you apprehensive about imperfect actions?
This is the month to give yourself permission to make lots of mistakes.
Begin with Reality Statements:
Thanks for being on this journey!
Recommended reading: Mindset, the New Psychology of Success
by: Carol S. Dweck, Ph.D.
P.S. I am looking for a group of readers who would like to beta-read my second book, The Cries of the Children. If that sounds interesting to you, please email me! email@example.com
The beta readers of my first book, Remembering Earth's Mission, From The Ancient Ones, keepers of Galactic Secrets, were incredibly helpful. They enriched the book. By the way, the first book will be out soon and I'll give you quick notice when it is!
February 2018 Lesson Two
Do you consider yourself a person of integrity?
Definition: The quality of being honest; having strong moral principles; moral uprightness; The state of being whole and individual; Upholding territorial integrity; Holding personal sovereignty
As I write, two thoughts pop:
One: The videos of small dogs whose owners have trained them to walk upright to dress them as toddlers.
Two: In 8th grade, I had a friend with an amazing laugh. I so wanted to laugh as she did so I would also be amazing. What do these thoughts have to do with Integrity?
Being honest and in a state of wholeness.
We all know that a small dog walking and dressing like a toddler is not a reflection of dog wholeness. And as amazing as my friend's laugh is, if I, or any of us, were to bend, and twist, to another's gifts, the media's sense of "good" or another person's perceptions, we would not reflect our Personal Self.
Last month I suggested that when you have a false signature, you have no identity. With no identity, you are not recognized, heard, or valued. With an identity, a sense of presence, a soft voice will be heard and valued.
With last lesson's assignment to sit and connect with an inner awareness of You, did you beginning to sense your Self?
This month I invite you to make your principles, values, and joys primary, the "I" to which you align affording the opportunity to have integrity. When you know your qualities and values, then it is clear that contrary expressions are foreign. Contrary expressions are like cancer cells are within your physical body. In your body, the T-cells of the immune system have the job of identifying foreign growths and call for help to contain and remove them. This month, You are going to be the T-cell for your life! A T-cell indicates what is foreign. Without an Identity of Self, there can be no "foreign."
How do we build a new world? Step by step with a new awareness of Our Selves.
Thanks for being on this journey!
January 2018 Lesson One
Who are you inside the body suit you call "I"?
When you close your eyes and the world disappears, an awareness still exists, carried by breath. This aliveness exists independent of all external covering. You may have forgotten this energy presence under the layers of the "me". In fact, most of our external "me's" do not even match its deep internal grandeur.
There is a quote I remember from years ago. I've forgotten the book. The quote, however, remains with me.
"If you have a false signature, you have no identity."
If you have no identity, you are not recognized. You are not seen. You are not heard. You have no value. You have no place at the table. If you have no identity, no matter how much you scream, no matter how loud you pound, no matter how hard you cry, you are not heard. You have no place at the table. Does this sound like any part of your life or world?
It is very important to know yourself at that deepest flow connection from the Great Source of your Magnificent Home. By claiming your true inheritance and nature, you consciously bring its vibrational signature through the body you inhabit. The deep signature energetic ought to be the "YOU" at the center of your life.
This unending flow from the greatest Source of Life is intelligent, creative, everywhere present, balanced, vital and carries all Good possibilities.
Therefore, when you remove all false "signatures", your flow of Divine marks you as Divine, you are recognized as Divine, you choose, live, and build from Divine Identity.
This course begins with your re-connection to the Deep Divine. From that place, you choose what of all Divine Good, you want to make your signature. What of the harmonics, the colors, sounds, and qualities you want to call forth. It was never the Greater's role to tell you. It is your responsibility to declare identity and purpose. Then, the Greater field of Intelligence will support and show you how.
Commit to a regular practice. Set aside 15 minutes. Mark the times on your calendar. Also, mark a two week time for a personal check-in. Begin by claiming this space and time as Sacred, Protected Ground with the Spiritual support of All Good.
1. Read an inspiring poem or from an uplifting book.
2. Sit quietly, and close your eyes. Sense that deeper I, the flow, the breath.
3. Relax your mind and let all external drop off.
4. As you sense the Great Source of Life and Good, notice the qualities, i.e. calm, balance, clear, strong, safe, etc.
5. When you are ready, write some statements for qualities you choose to embody,
Activate the clearing of false signatures and anchor the new signature with a Reality Statement and the Reality Shift process. Repeat regularly through the month.
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How do we build a new world? Step by step within Our Selves.
Thanks for being on this journey!
. . . to our detriment!
We are missing the point on tRump!
There have been multiple comments made about the fact that, "Trump has been tweeting nonsense while California burns."
We expect him to feel, think, or act like a fellow human being. The facts that he does not ought to tell us that he is not like a fellow human being. We can put words like, "mean", "non-caring", "psycho", "socio", to his words and actions. And, by current professional writings, he may well exhibit actions that meet their definitions. However, from the broader View of a Mystic, there is something else going on. It is the "something else that we are missing".
The limited views in which we have been living were created by our ancestors who needed to survive. In a world in which the greater part of our history had been hidden from them, they made up stories to try and make sense of their lives. When you have limited thinking, limited stories, and hidden truths, you end up with unsolvable problems. It's like you forget that yellow and blue equal green and you try to get to green by mixing red and blue. It will never happen. Using the false concept, the problem of how to get to the color green will forever remain unsolved.
Fortunately, we insisted that the Law of Manifestation be foundational for our lives on this planet. With this Law, we can know by the outcome of the energy imprint, "seed" thought, energy form, will reflect its beginning, containing its identity. The outcome will either expand our lives, constrict our lives or, slowly or quickly, end our lives. The plant will identity it beginning.
We knew that it was important to have "healthy" seeds of Good to insure that cultures to benefit the Entire Web of Life could grow. The Law of Manifestation gave the ability to discern any imprints that would prevent that. The Law made discernment and choices possible. Seeing the outcome, we could go upstream of the result. Therefore, we could either nurture and even duplicate the energy seed. Or we could identify the energy beginning contain it, neutralize it, and remove it from our world.
The stories from survival have perpetrated the concept that we cannot powerfully name a constricting outcome as "NOT Acceptable" and have it removed at its beginning.
Instead, we have been trained to excuse it, give it a chance to change, cry to an outside source to give us strength, endure the damage, doubt our own experience, suffer difficulties well, and generally act in powerless ways.
What we see when tRump does nothing in the face of the Northern California fires or refuses to bring effective and long-term help to Puerto Rico ought to wake us up. From a Mystic's View, I can tell you that there are energy forms of evil directly impacting us. It is not about a "devil" as we have been taught. The forces that will destroy us come from distant homes, off-planet, with specific agendas. Their agendas are to dominate, control, or use others. They have no empathetic connection to humanity. They have no connection or commitment to a Greater Power of Good for All. Over generations of influence on this planet, they have multiplied and become stronger and stronger.
Because, Divine Souls in Female body suits have lost connection to their Original Assignment. That Assignment is to call manifestations that dominate, control, or use others, name them as Outsiders, and decree that Spiritual Legions remove them back to their Home of Origin.
The energy you see manifested every day through tRump is such energy.
If we continue to only complain, tolerate, excuse, ignore and be anger, our very lives will be further extinguished.
It is time for Souls in Female Body Suits to awaken to their mission
It is time for Souls in Make Body Suits to value the Female Presence, support her voice and to nature Females in their momentous assignment.
Truth will set us Free... Check our more of Women are up to and Standing Together to Lead to a New World. Women: Stand-Lead
does it hurt men?
What happens when you take measures to solve a problem using an incorrect premise? What happens when you work to restore balance using an inaccurate blueprint?
I received an email from a woman I respect who shared a blog post addressing the concern that the female movement for inclusion and equality has hurt men.
I saw it as an example of those questions, you arrive at greater imbalance and continuing problems.
If you begin with the premise that red and yellow will create green, you will always be confused at the outcome. You may wonder what, no matter what proportions you use, the result is not green. What is wrong with you?
Life is like a research project. A scientist takes a premise, red and yellow equals green, and goes into the laboratory to test the concept. After many tries, she concludes that the premise is faulty. No harm done, no blame of another and no sense of inadequacy. The premise is incorrect.
When I was faced with the idea that my financial lack could be changed by my thoughts, I was puzzled. Having been raised in a religious community which I was assured that Heavenly Father gave me a life plan. My only responsibility was to live it with obedience. I could affect that plan? The idea was foreign, even blasphemous. If I was suffering, my job was to do it well, be nice, smile. I would be rewarded in heaven.
But curiosity won out. I became a scientist. I took the premise that "I had choice", learned about affirmations and watched for the result. My financial picture changed! Correct premise.
So, if women's process is negatively impacting men, there is something wrong with the beginning premise, women's rights are human rights or women are equal to men.
In my view, we have not gone far enough upstream and around the twists and turns to discover the accurate premise. We have lost track of the greater picture of Earth mission and gender purpose. We are working from a blueprint already crippled and misshapen, from a concept assumed from generations of torture, abuse, survival, and entrapment. We are seeing with vision created by ancestors living in a matrix of imposed lies.
Why have women been targeted?
Why have women been diminished as too weak or emotional to be leaders?
Why do we attribute aggression and domination to men?
Why are women assigned the time intensive task of keeping home and children?
Why are women's sensitivities demeaned?
Until you really grasp the depth, you are only twisting in the web, living in the matrix and will arrive in continued entrapment. Red and yellow will never get you to green just as men have caused women's devalued situations will never get you to respectful gender balance.
It is important to draw attention to the problematic outcome, however, because by this outcome, you know that something is wrong upstream.
There is immense pollution of false concepts upstream that have hidden the truth. Are you ready to consider a broader possibility?
Set aside an hour or so, watch the videos on this playlist and ponder, "What does it mean?" Videos of our Galactic History
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The End of Our Blindness
I am watching the events unfold as the ripples, waves and tsunami expand from Charlottesville, Virginia.
I am presently editing my book, The Ancient Ones, Their Message Today which contains more of the information that I have been given over the years from those in the Unseen Worlds.
I know the answers are not in our current mind think...
This is what I wrote this morning:
My story begins at the same visible point as yours
My story is different than most,
My story takes me upstream
My story winds around bends into hidden places,
My story goes beyond patriarchy, aggressive white men, white privilege,
My story goes beyond "god"
My story goes further back than diversity,
My story winds back before human enslavement and global occupations
And yet, my story encompasses them all.
My story goes far enough upstream that it topples the matrix
Unless we go back far enough, we are still caught in symptoms, punching as shadows, and are not at the "Cause" which is where real change will be made.
I wish my book was ready to be circulated and it is not. I am editing and writing as fast as I can....
Just know, that from all that I see, there is hope!
The answer lies in the hidden, the shadows.
This is a time to deepen into what YOU are as a Presence... to what values motivate your thoughts and actions. Hold steady.
There is much more to add to our Experience as Beings of Good.
I am choosing to focus on getting my next book published. Therefore, I am letting go of the bi-monthly circle call for now. I know you are blessing our world in your way.
I send you support and encouragement for this phase of your journey!
p.s. if you would like to be a beta reader of my book before it goes to publication, I would love to send you a copy as soon as it is ready, Thankful for your help!
There are multiple roles within the Great Earth Mission. Humanity has all but forgotten the mission and Individuals have certainly their personal roles.
They've forgotten the many Mission components:
One role is held by those we call the Empaths, the ones who had agreed to sense of a wider range of energy vibrations. This is in contrast to the majority of the population who use only 5 physical senses, i.e. touch, taste, smell, see and sound, to interpret the world.
Let's use a common model to add clarity. Around us are many devices that emit and receive unseen energy frequencies, a radio picks up radio waves, a TV receives TV vibrations, cell phones pick up cell frequencies, etc. There is not one technical device that receives and interprets all of them.
n Humankind, most individuals pick up a limited range of vibrations of what we call the physical world. An Empath is very close to a device that is sensitive enough to feel the wider range of the frequencies in this model; the radio, TV and cell phone. In actuality, they sense the ranges of Spiritual intuitive waves, Emotional frequencies, Mental vibrations as easily as those vibrations we call physical. What most Empaths do not understand is why or what to do with this gift. Some feel bombarded with the unseen vibrations, especially around groups of people.
Our Earth Mission involved incarnating onto a physical planet, Earth. We know that Earth space is very contaminated. It is filled with heavier vibrations such as fear, lack, blame, control, violence, etc. and those vibrations constrict life flow and expansion. Humanity came because of the contamination. We knew we would be working in regions where domination, control, greed, abuse, fear, lack, etc. exist. And, as intelligent Beings, we make plans as to how to keep each other safe while we transformed the "mess". We know it would be dangerous.
There are others who have had risky jobs. Think of miners working underground in the coal fields. Before technology these workers could quickly be overcome with suddenly released toxins in the coal environment. Before they were aware, the miners could be overcome by the unseen fumes and die underground.
One solution was to take a caged canary down into the shaft with them. Being smaller and possibly more sensitive to the toxins, canaries became the early warning system. When the canary began acting strangely or died, the coal workers had better get out of the mine.
Empaths among us are the "canaries for humanity". Our mission to remove the cause of toxic energy and agendas that destroy life has to be done within the toxic contained energy field that we call Earth.
OUR PURPOSE IS NOT TO SURVIVE IN SPITE OF THE TRAPPING AND DESTROYING ENERGY WAVES FROM DOMINATION, GREED, CONTROL, VIOLENCE AND USURY. It is to identify these vibrations radiating from these agendas, name them and command the removal of the entire configuration back to its Home of Origin.
The beginning insertion of these agendas was made into the unseen dimensions before Earth. It is those programs broadcasting their low, heavy, destructive frequencies that has constricted the Divine Family Flow. Now there are imprints, patterns, concepts held in all dimensions, i.e. Spiritual, Emotional, lMental and now into physical systems, cultures and forms that is the toxic culture in which we live. It is easy to sense them with of 5 senses, i.e., domestic violence, murder, war, rape culture, dominating leaders, etc. Many will sense the emotions generated from situations.
An empath, however, will sense energy disruptions that are hidden from most. They sense somethings '"off" when the vibration is Spiritual, Emotional, or Mental, even before it has slowed down enough to be "seen" as real by our physical senses. They are members of the early warning collective, the whistle blowers. They are the ones who give us a red flag that says, "STOP'", "DANGER", "EVALUATE", and even, "GET OUT NOW!"
In our greater political cultures, they have been demeaned, ignored, prosecuted to the detriment of our country and mission. In dysfunctional families, they are called troublemakers, are diminished, ignored and often separated from the family.
Are you an empath? Consider that your sensitivities are a great contribution to our mission and world. It was not intended that you learn to toughen up, build a tough skin, disassociate or ignore your sensory input. Nor was it intended that you identify and fix the problematic frequency. Your voice of warning was to heard, valued and acted upon.
You are also the MINER who is carrying this sensitive canary into every situation. That MINER part of yourself has responsibility also. It is to "hear" the canary "sense" the discomfort and then to ACT for yourself. Get out of the mine shaft! In the process, the warning, "Something is dangerous, not right, damaging here!" is given.
The additional action step is given to the healing and removal mission groups. You can name the energy as TOXIC / NOT Acceptable* and turn over to our Spiritual PTO group residing in the unseen worlds of Galactic Spirit. They can then act to identify, neutralize, condense, remove and seal the energy forms in their Original Home.
It is those on the Earth Mission Force who wake up, remember their assignments and begin acting on them who will cause our World to Shift.
You are One!
*Learn about NOT Acceptable
That is My experience of the subjugation of women became physical when I been married less than 3 months. It happened when I served green beans for dinner.
There was never any recognizable abuse , control or domination in my home. My dad was very busy with church and work but he appreciated my mom's place in the running of the home. I remember times when he instigated cleaning or cooking to help her out or to surprise her. I did not question the fact that my dad and the other men in the tribe did all of the "important' stuff. It was common for men to control the car, the checkbook and the activities. This was god's system and as while child, it created my view of the world.
As a 20 years old my tribal culture that put me close to old maid status. Having the "right" man ask you to marry him was the goal set for girls their entire lives. I had grown up being taught to cook meals, clean house, iron cloths tend babies, and stay very connected to the tenants of our tribal religion. The highest education suggested was graduation from high school. Basic education was important just because it was the thing to do, until you got married.
In 1960 was introduced to a possible partner. We talked via phone and set a date. And then another date. We talked, laughed and shared our ideas about life and what we wanted. No surprise that our "dreams" matched, it was what we had each been taught but the authority voices in our church. Although I had a tiny inner voice say, "He is a nice man, not for marriage", I had not been taught or allowed to get such inner guidance and so when he asked me to marry him, I said "Yes".
During the marriage ceremony, the only advice I remember getting from the officiator, one of the "tribal hierarchy, was "Don't go to bed with harsh word between you, obey your husband". No problem. I had observed my mom and dad. He took good care of my mom, even thought out the important stuff for her, because he loved her.
In my limited experience, I didn't not know that there were other models for marriage and that my husband came from an entirely different one. I was not "street smart".
So, one evening I returned home from my full time job. Even though my husband who was between school and a job and had been home all day, it was my job to fix dinner, which I did. I don't remember all of the specifics although I know that it was an acceptable one because that is what I had been taught. Our kitchen was very small with the table close to the stove. My husband was seated by the stove while I took the chair closer to the wall. At some point, my husband noted that the bowl containing the green beans was empty. Indeed it was. So, I responded with the information, "Sure is. There are more in the pan on the stove just next to you," expecting him to reach over, pick up the pan and replenish the bean bowl. Made sense to me.
That is NOT WHAT HAPPENED!
In His world, replenishing the food was a woman's job!
And, in addition, he took measures to let me know that "he" was to be treated as the king in his home. That meant that I was to get up, take the bowl, squeeze by him, refill the beans, set it on the table and go on with the meal. Too shocked to think about what had just happened, I did just that. Then, to make sure that I got the message, he would not speak to me for the next three days.
That began my downward slide into domination without recognizing or naming it so. It required being watchful of his words and behavior, to be ahead of his possible reactions. It required giving up outside friends, adhering to his concepts of life in order to be approved of and to be supported.
You may ask why I did not reach out for help. Good question. The religious tenant regarding men and women was god given, there was no fault in the tenant. If this relationship did not work it was because something was wrong with me or the way I was interacting. In the 1960's, domestic violence or control was never mentioned, the counseling available put the blame on the woman and told her to try harder.
For those born after the stands taken by women during the '60's and 70's, you must remember: We have come a Long Way Baby! Don't be lulled back into sleep by the gains.
WE have a long way yet the concept that men hold the power and women are lesser is alive and well in world... as you see every day.
It is up to Women to hold hands with one another, evaluate what could be lost, what is still yet to gain and how we can bring our clarity, strength and gifts together and create the world that benefits All in the Web of Life.
I encourage you to Vision, and to Imagine such a World, ask, "What is my role to play?" and then look for your Sister Groups.
Most important is to Listen! Don't do as I did with my inner voice of guidance… "not marriage". Your purpose and safety is held within the power of the Solar Plexus, Wisdom Center. Heed and Act!
Sending love and as always, available for conversations and mentoring of assistance.
It was a beautiful sunny fall day in 1995. I had published my first book, The Ancient Ones, The Mission Remembered. Now, I was on the first tour to promote the book. Since the July publication, I had been in Utah, the Bay Area of California, spent a week with my family on the Olympic Peninsula and was now introducing myself and book to the Seattle area.
The day had been going well until I walked into the last bookstore. The owner was gone having forgotten our appointment. Nothing to do but head home. As I got back into my car, I thought about cold lemonade. A 40 minute drive home. Hot day, cool drink. Sounded good!
As I went to pull out of my parking space, my Spiritual team said, "Why don't you go on home." I argued, " Cold lemonade would taste mighty good." Then the reply, "Traffic will be questionable if you wait." "Oh, but a lemonade would be a great treat." "You can get one once you're out of the city if you want." No pressure. Just a suggestion. I had learned to listen to those subtle "suggestions".
So, I pulled onto the freeway and drove home. When I pulled to the curb, my 15 year old son and 11 year old granddaughter came running out of the front door to my car. That was a first!
My thought was, "Wow, this is probably what a dad feels like when his kids rush him after work." I smiled.
And then everything went sideways.
"Carolyn's been in an accident!' they shouted.
Carolyn, my youngest daughter, had stayed in Utah to finish at Weber State University when my son and I had moved to Washington state.
Accident! How, What, questions whirled through my brain as we walked in three legged tandem into the house.
My daughter Teresa pulled me in. "We have been trying to find you," she said. It was the world before cell phones. "Carolyn was in a car accident, hit by a semi and is in the hospital. We have tickets booked. David has packed you a suitcase and we were just getting ready to leave." It all came out in a rush and trickled down my spine.
I dropped my books in my room, was rushed into the back seat as my son in law, daughter and 3 year old granddaughter drove to the SeaTac airport and a flight to Salt Lake City.
Had I ignored or diminished the message, had I stopped for lemonade, I would have missed the flight.
The journey with Carolyn and the 23 months before she felt complete with the earthily portion of her Soul journey is another story.
What I want to share in this letter is an important truth I learned after Carolyn consciously left her body on July 20, 1997.
Regular conversations with her in that new world of Spirit began on July 21, 1997 and we visited every morning for the rest of the year. We talked about her accident, our relationship and her experience in the new phase of life.
I want to share a conversation that I had with her that informed what I chose with Keith's passing this year. Also, what I encouraged my family members and others to consider. This is from writings of a conversation with Carolyn about her accident and death experience.
"I am a little sad tonight, missing all of you. I will be hovering with everyone tonight and tomorrow. I hope my presence helps rather than aggravates. I know it has really helped me to spend time with you. For some over here, “death” has meant instantaneous severing by their physical family....it is extremely difficult.
"Even though the idea that the Soul never dies is fairly common, our culture has not taken the next step to education ourselves on the language needed to continue relationships beyond the void. Many who have made the transition we call "death", try to stay in touch. They call out, I’m alive, I’m alive, I’m alive! When those without a physical body suit move close to those they love, their loved one's energy field resonates to the Soul presence. There may be a feeling of coldness. And most usually it triggers memories from their times together. Instead of recognizing that the Soul presence is there to Love, Calm, Bless, the one in physical body is sent into great waves of grief and loss.
"When this happens again and again, the Soul discovers that in order to stop painful memories and grief, it is best to stay farther away. That is the true loss for those on this side.
"Treat this as if I am in a foreign country with only phone or mail access. When you think about me, quiet down and call me! I really need the calls from home, from family. The sadness you all feel will become empty. The calls would enrich both of our lives!"
And I have been blessed with experience after experience of such conversations. So, when Keith passed, I encouraged anyone who would listen to set aside time to "talk" with him. The practice can be as simple as setting Sacred Space and quieting the mind. Then, asking one question and waiting with a pencil and notebook for the answer. It gives a beginning. The answer may come as words, symbols, feelings or even colors. It is through making the effort to begin and recording the conversations that the relationship can continue. And as you begin, be willing to reach out to ask for help.
I hope that this idea helps your "boxed" limits drop away so the you might hear those subtle suggestions like, "Don't stop for lemonade." or "I'm alive and still with you!" Building a language that works for you creates the bridge between the worlds your loved ones may be traveling.
Sending blessings of love and insight for you and your life!
Sharon Riegie Maynard
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