does it hurt men?
What happens when you take measures to solve a problem using an incorrect premise? What happens when you work to restore balance using an inaccurate blueprint?
I received an email from a woman I respect who shared a blog post addressing the concern that the female movement for inclusion and equality has hurt men.
I saw it as an example of those questions, you arrive at greater imbalance and continuing problems.
If you begin with the premise that red and yellow will create green, you will always be confused at the outcome. You may wonder what, no matter what proportions you use, the result is not green. What is wrong with you?
Life is like a research project. A scientist takes a premise, red and yellow equals green, and goes into the laboratory to test the concept. After many tries, she concludes that the premise is faulty. No harm done, no blame of another and no sense of inadequacy. The premise is incorrect.
When I was faced with the idea that my financial lack could be changed by my thoughts, I was puzzled. Having been raised in a religious community which I was assured that Heavenly Father gave me a life plan. My only responsibility was to live it with obedience. I could affect that plan? The idea was foreign, even blasphemous. If I was suffering, my job was to do it well, be nice, smile. I would be rewarded in heaven.
But curiosity won out. I became a scientist. I took the premise that "I had choice", learned about affirmations and watched for the result. My financial picture changed! Correct premise.
So, if women's process is negatively impacting men, there is something wrong with the beginning premise, women's rights are human rights or women are equal to men.
In my view, we have not gone far enough upstream and around the twists and turns to discover the accurate premise. We have lost track of the greater picture of Earth mission and gender purpose. We are working from a blueprint already crippled and misshapen, from a concept assumed from generations of torture, abuse, survival, and entrapment. We are seeing with vision created by ancestors living in a matrix of imposed lies.
Why have women been targeted?
Why have women been diminished as too weak or emotional to be leaders?
Why do we attribute aggression and domination to men?
Why are women assigned the time intensive task of keeping home and children?
Why are women's sensitivities demeaned?
Until you really grasp the depth, you are only twisting in the web, living in the matrix and will arrive in continued entrapment. Red and yellow will never get you to green just as men have caused women's devalued situations will never get you to respectful gender balance.
It is important to draw attention to the problematic outcome, however, because by this outcome, you know that something is wrong upstream.
There is immense pollution of false concepts upstream that have hidden the truth. Are you ready to consider a broader possibility?
Set aside an hour or so, watch the videos on this playlist and ponder, "What does it mean?" Videos of our Galactic History
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After Forty years of working within the worlds we call Spiritual and with Beings of the Highest Integrity, I am honored to share my path to spark and empower your own.